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Talk to women at college parties can be little fun
(Just one college student's point of view)
Have u ever tried to have a conversation with a woman at a party? Most of the time it is too loud, too boring, or too congested when trying to talk to women at a party. In college settings, most students who go to parties are going to have a good time. Drinking and dancing are constants at any good party but for most men going to a party with beautiful women is the real main attraction. In college, students are always interacting and socializing with those of the opposite sex and parties are some the best yet hardest ways to truly get to know a person. The most famous of the college parties is the house party and all that comes with it. Most house parties consists of many people crowding into a small space (in the Midwest a basement is prevalent) with loud music and many drinks to go around. In my experiences a house party can be the best forum for talking to a woman in a party setting because tyrpically there are chairs to sit down in and there is always a segment of "wall flowers" that do not want to get up and dance. Even though the party may be loud and somewhat congested, being at a house party is more personable and will allow you and the lady you desire to get to know each other through closer contact as space is definitely limited at house parties.
Conversely you have the club party. There is between a $10 to $ 20 fee to essentially go inside a club and look at a bunch of beautiful women that are either in a relationship, rude, on the rebound, or unattractively drunk. I am not saying that success does not come from talking to women at clubs. The problem is that most clubs are less personable and in a much larger setting therefore making it too easy for a woman to detach herself socially from truly getting to know a man. In all honesty, many women at clubs go because they want to feel sexy and they want to drink free alcohol all night. HOORAH for women! Men do not have the luxury of getting women to buy them free alcohol unless they are either an athlete at a university or in some sort of fraternal organization. All in all talking to women at parties and being successful is no exact science. It takes good timing, charisma, honesty, and women without a broken heart to truly be successful when talking women. Those four factors must be prevalent when talking to any women anywhere whether at a party or at church. Just remember if you are sitting next to a woman at a party and you think you want to talk to her, it is your inalienable right as a man to pursue and do so. A wise man once told me, "You miss a hundred percent of the shots you don't take". So unless you're Shaquille O'neal on the free throw line, I suggest you take as many shots as you can with women! Good Luck!!!
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